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Good-bye, Mommy A-Z!
It’s about that time. Time to say good-bye.
Really, it’s not a big deal since I haven’t been here in forever. It’s just that the domain hosting service is up for renewal and I don’t want to pay for it anymore. Like, that money can be used to buy more coffee or pay for subscriptions that have past their free trial period but I continue to pay for because I’m too lazy to cancel. (I’m looking at you, Amazon Music Unlimited.)
The big question is: How do you turn this thing off without destroying it completely? I spent a good 45 minutes googling “how to retire a blog,” but then the search results kept bringing me to retirement blogs with advice on “How to Make the Most of Your Retirement.” Ummmm…Thanks, but no thanks, Google. That’s not very helpful. I just don’t want to lose all the photos and stuff I wrote. Is there an “export” button or a free domain I can park this thing on indefinitely? F1, F1, F1!
The bitter and the sweet
I have so many feelings about saying good-bye. I love everything that I created here. I think about the endless hours I spent working on the design, making blogger friends that I still keep in touch with on Instagram, the sweet release of creative energy and satisfaction of hitting “Publish.” (Immediately followed by an embarrassing prompt asking me if I’m sure I want to publish even through the post contains 39 spelling and grammatical errors.)
And then, I see old pictures of my babies.
Remember when they were sweet little babies? Now they are big kids with mouths half full of grown-up teeth. When I read these old posts, I re-live those moments through the vivid pictures I took with my fancy camera. I feel everything I felt at that time because it’s my own voice telling me how beautiful or funny or challenging or blessed my life was at that exact moment. It saddens me that I haven’t taken the time to document anything past 2014 because I won’t remember anything as fondly as I did when I actually wrote it down. I mean, I do post on Facebook and Instagram but those aren’t as through. thur-ough. thourough. thurogh. thorough (Ah! There it is. Geez, that word is so difficult.) as capturing the memories as it is on the blog.
Spoiler alert to my-“2012 wannabe blogger”-self: You won’t make any money from being a blogger.
I did get some free items and attended a few cool blogging events. My google adsense revenue maxed out at about $106. Ouch. The truth is, I didn’t self-promote. I didn’t over-share. I didn’t even tell people I had a blog because deep down, I’m an introvert and I’m not social at all – both online and in real life. Basically, my target audience was myself and maybe a few family members and friends. Good thing I wasn’t in it for the money and I didn’t quit my day job! Ha.
What’s next for Mommy A-Z?
The About Me section still says that I’m in my early-thirties and that we live in the suburbs of Chicago. My current status is that I’m squarely in my mid-thirties and living in sunny Florida! (I’m also fifteen pounds heavier, but that’s beside the point.) I’m still working full-time in the retail industry, focusing on innovation and technology. I still have a wonderful husband, three beautiful kids, and a dog named Coconut. The house we bought in Florida is almost the same exact layout as the house in Illinois so the furniture and decoration is the same.
What’s next for me? What am I going to do when I’m not busy with my full-time job, my three kids, and evenings filled with extra practice of doggone common core math so we don’t collectively fail when school starts again? Will I ever be caught up with the laundry? I wish my future-self would drop a spoiler alert to my-“2018 blog quitter”-self.
In the meantime, I still get a bit of a creative outlet, but it’s totally different than blogging. My husband started a t-shirt printing business out of our garage and we named it Coconut Print Co. I get to design the shirts and list them on Etsy. It’s kind of cool because I spend a few hours designing shirts on the weekends and he prints the shirts on his days off. It’s a lot less time consuming than blogging, in my opinion. Also, I like the fact that it’s something that we can do together – like a husband and wife dream team!
So if you are wondering what I’m up to now that this blog is finito, I will likely be at work or with my kids or staycationing somewhere in Florida rocking a shirt that was designed by me and printed by Jeff.
Look at that shameless plug! Haha! Stop by and say hello sometime to Coconut Print Co!
Thank you for reading along. This has been quite a journey. I will miss you, Mommy A-Z.
Now, how do you turn this thing off?
August Bookish
I’ve always been an avid reader. There’s nothing better than getting lost in a good book. Well, binge watching a really good series is a pretty good time…and eating ice cream in bed is down right blissful. But reading has always been one of my favorite past times.
I mostly read chic-lit, the historic novels or mystery-thrillers. But with three kids and a full-time job, who has time for reading? I somehow got suckered into signing up for a subscription to Audible. They were charging my account every month and when I inquired about the suspicious charges, they said I had enough credits to redeem six audiobooks. I have a 60-minute round-trip commute to work everyday, so I started using that time to “read” my pre-purchased books.
It was a little disorienting to make the switch from listening to books as opposed to actually reading them. Kind of like how it was to switch from reading physical printed books to electronic books. But after the first few minutes, I found myself getting carried away all the same by the spoken narratives coming from my car speakers.
I’m actually flying through my books! So I figured I’d start a book review series here to document my bookishness. Here goes:
The Good Goodbye by Carla Buckley
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
Two cousins, Arden and Rory, are as close as sisters and they both end up in a coma after a fire that happened in their college dorm room. This novel goes through their family history, as told through the eyes of Arden, Rory, and Arden’s mother Natalie as the traumatic event causes the main characters to reflect on their complex relationships and events leading up to the fire.
The story jumped back and forth between present time an flashbacks. I was completely immersed in thoughts of Rory, Arden, and Natalie and the characters were so richly developed. I was reminded of how it felt to be a teenager again through the eyes of Arden and Rory. I also felt the pangs of sibling rivalry as they went through memories of their childhood together because they were as close as sisters.
There were some parts that were slow, but ultimately I kept reading because I wanted to know what exactly caused the fire and who was going to live. It was well worth sticking through the end because of the surprising plot twist. However, there were certain parts of the plot line that were left unanswered.
Dark Matter by Blake Crouch
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This is about a man named Jason who is looking forward to a very normal Friday evening with his wife and teenager, but ends up getting abducted at gun point while coming home from an ice cream run. When he wakes up, he is in a familiar place – but in an entirely different life that is not his own.
The story twists and turns and turns as he tries to figure out where he is and how to get home. It is smart, suspenseful and gripping. It gets a little hairy towards the end, but in a good and unexpected way.
This book had me questioning everything I knew about life, about the universe, the multiverse and every decision I’ve ever made. It’s about love, regrets, the endless possibilities – with science and suspense written across the pages. I loved that it was based in Chicago because I grew up in the surrounding area.
Right now I’m reading The Power of Habit. I figured if I’m reading books, I might as well read something that might make me smarter or more productive. LOL So far, I’m really digging it! Stay tuned for more reviews on my monthly bookish series…
Got any book recommendations for me? I’d love to hear it!
Pink and Gold Stars First Birthday
Alyssa turned one already! To celebrate, we had little birthday celebration at a local restaurant. It wasn’t a big event, but that didn’t stop her from going baby-glam – we went for a pink and gold stars first birthday theme!! With a matching pink and gold star cake and smash cake, of course.
I got her metallic gold star outfit from Crazy 8.
I ordered her cake just the day before from Sweetie’s Delights bakery. I just sent them a picture of her outfit and they worked their magic to produce this beautiful cake with pink metallic and gold stars.
I just adored her cake, but when it came time to dig into her smash cake she was overly distracted from all the singing and the people and a giant giraffe (don’t ask).
Overall, I think she enjoyed her birthday. I bet she won’t even remember this short and sweet celebration, but I certainly will. I loved the pink and gold theme so much that I think that I will carry the theme over to her bedroom when we get our new house. In the meantime, if you are feeling inspired to have a pink and gold star themed birthday for your little girl, here’s my Pinterest board for some other great ideas.
Happy birthday to my sweet babygirl! Thanks for stopping by!
Making Faces! Book Review and Giveaway
My kiddos have been super spoiled since we moved here with all the beaches and outdoor activities. Florida is like a giant playground for kids! But sometimes we stay home because I get lazy or it rains. And when it rains, I get lazy. I’m always looking for indoor activities that allow the kids to get creative without me having to buy a ton of supplies and then ending up with a big mess. I’m talking about no fuss and…did I mention I get lazy?
I was super happy when my friends over at Thames and Hudson sent us a copy of MAKING FACES! by Jacky Bahbout & Momoko Kudo. It’s a wonderfully silly, creative drawing pad that lets the kids star in their own works of art. And hey, you can enter for a chance to win a book for your kiddos! (Scroll down to enter in the giveaway.)
The concept is a simple art pad with a hole in the middle, with just enough graphics to spark the imaginations. First, pick a scene or character from the book. There are so many to choose from! You can be a lion, king, pumpkin, snowman, astronaut, dancer, singer, clown, or a caterpillar…
Next color, doodle, and draw around the headwear and surroundings. You can go crazy with glitter and other textures or you can just go with the good ol’ box of crayons to complete the art.
Once the drawing is finished, you stick your face through the strategically-placed hole to become the character. It’s like an easy photo booth prop and totally Instagram-worthy!
This was such a nice break from the iPad and Netflix that my kids are so addicted to. My favorite part was that Arielle and Zavier were able to get creative and use their imaginations, and it was totally appropriate for my first grader and preschooler. It’s a perfect kids activity for a rainy day, a lazy day, or any kind of awesome day!
Click below to enter for a chance to win a copy of Making Faces! Star in your own works of art (Retail value of $17.99). Three winners will be chosen!
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Thanks for checking out my review and good luck! Huge thank you to Kait and my friends at Thames & Hudson for sponsoring this giveaway! XOXO
Why I Quit My Garage Sale
Garage Sale season is in full effect, y’all! I love shopping at garage sales, but I just had the worst time ever trying to sell stuff at my own garage sale. I hoarded all my old and unused stuff in hopes that one day I will sell them all and make a ton of money. I read through all the garage sale tips on planning and pricing and followed them to a T. Then, two hours into the actual garage sale I realized that it just wasn’t worth it so I quit!
It doesn’t matter how you price things. Whether you have price tags or have boxes organized by price point, people will only pay what they want to pay. They will haggle their hearts out until they get the item practically free. Within the first few minutes I had several conversations that went like this:
SHOPPER: How much for this? (Holds up item that clearly says $5)
ME: Five dollars. (Smiles sweetly)
SHOPPER: How about fifty cents. (Not a question, but more of a demand.)
ME: I can do two dollars. (Still hopeful)
SHOPPER: How about one dollar.
ME:
Actually, my first sale was to a sweet woman who asked for a brand new bottle of Victoria’s Secret perfume for fifty cents. She rummaged through all the change in her purse and I ended up with 48 cents.
So thirty minutes into my epic garage sale, I made a whopping 48 cents. I could sense that this was not going well and it wasn’t because of the lack of people. It was a neighborhood-wide garage sale so there was a constant stream of potential buyers, but no sales.
I work in retail so I knew I could do this, but maybe I had to rethink my strategy by assessing the basics: Product, Price, and Placement. Maybe I didn’t have a big enough draw? I pulled out my bicycle out as the big-ticket bait and displayed it predominately at the end of my driveway. Was I priced too high? Perhaps, so I changed the pricing of my gently used shoes from $10 to $5 each. As for visual merchandising – I pulled the attractive items out of the bins so people wouldn’t have to rummage through them to find the good stuff. I even turned on Bruno Mars on my phone to set a happy ambiance. Happy people like to spend money, right? Bruno Mars makes me happy at least.
Regardless of my garage sale set up, it was a little depressing to see all my crap out there in boxes so that people could pick through them and eventually reject them. Like Jimmy Fallon once said in his “Thank You Notes:”
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After an hour, my total earnings was one dollar and forty-eight cents. (You see what I did there? I spelled it out because it looks like a lot more than $1.48.) My original plan was to do six hours on Friday and six hours on Saturday. At the rate I was going, my total earnings would be $15.36.
By noon, I made the call to quit my own garage sale. There were so many other things I could have done on my day off than to sit around and wait for my stuff to sell. I could spend time with my kids, have a nice lunch, and then take a beautiful nap…and I did just that!
As for my goldmine of unwanted crap, there was still hope. I ended up selling a big chandelier on a local Facebook group for $40 later that same day. The house and baby stuff were in good condition so donated those items and now I can claim it as a tax deduction. Lastly, I saved my designer purses and shoes so I could sell them on Poshmark:
So I’ll admit that I’m a quitter and that my garage sale was an epic failure. I’m sure there are some people who make a ton of money when it comes to garage sales. But the time it took to plan, set-up, and wait for someone to buy something for waaaaaay less than I hoped for was just not worth it for me. I’ll just stick to the garage sale shopping!
Have you had any luck with selling your stuff at garage sales?
AppleCheeks Cloth Diaper Review and Giveaway
Disclosure: I was not paid nor given free products from AppleCheeks to do a review of AppleCheeks cloth diaper covers. I just honestly think this is a great product and wanted to share my thoughts with my lovely readers. I gave the co-founders a heads up about my product review and they offered to sponsor a chance for you to win an AppleCheeks microterry bundle. Yay!
Here’s how it works:
1. Watch the video (or read the summary below if you don’t have time to watch the video)
2. Enter the RaffleCopter for a chance to win an AppleCheeks Microterry Bundle
So ^^that^^ was a vlog of my AppleCheeks cloth diaper review. Thanks for watching!
But if you don’t have the time to watch the full review, here are the top reasons why I love AppleCheeks:
Super easy to use – You can stuff the insert inside the envelope cover or just lay the insert on top of the cover, snap and go! They are easy to wash, too. So if you stuff the insert inside the envelope cover, then the insert comes out by itself in the wash. It’s so easy that it’s fool proof, just ask my husband! LOL
Pretty and trim – AppleCheeks are so pretty! Umm, hello?! Did you see the ruffles? I love the variety of colors and their fun names like Love Happens, Raspberry Sorbet, and Appletini.
I love how cute these look on my baby’s bum! The bamboo inserts are thin, yet super absorbent. They don’t give my baby a bubble butt and you can barely notice that she’s rockin’ cloth underneath when she’s wearing pants.
They hold their value – AppleCheeks retail for about $20, but I can sell the diaper covers for $10-17 depending on the condition of the diaper once my baby is potty trained. I plan on buying myself something nice once I cash in on those diapers!
Peace. Love. AppleCheeks. AppleCheeks mommas are fiercly loyal to the product and to each other. There is a drama-free Facebook group for moms to talk about their love of AppleCheeks, share cute baby pictures, or ask for general parenting advice. The founders of AppleCheeks and their team are there, too, interacting with us mommas and surprising us with new products and giveaways.
Soooooooo now that you know all the reasons why I decided to go 100% full-time and exclusively with AppleCheeks, here is your chance to win a free AppleCheeks diaper cover + microterry insert of your choice. (Subject to availability.) And big thank you to AppleCheeks for sponsoring this giveaway!
Giveaway ends 5/15/2015. Winner will be notified via email.
Five Things You Didn’t Know About Cloth Diapering
I covered MommyCon Chicago as a journalist back in February, which is a boutique style conference on modern and natural parenting. I was all about the babywearing and breastfeeding, but had no interest in cloth diapering. I didn’t know anything about cloth diapering other than the fact that I’m terrible at laundry and poopy diapers were not something I wanted to add to my always overflowing hamper. But as a journalist, I approached the notion of cloth diapering with an open mind. I attended the Cloth Diaper 101 seminar and even bought a few pairs of AppleCheeks diapers to test out.
There’s a huge learning curve to cloth diapering and it was a bit intimidating at first. It’s definitely not mainstream (i.e., not something you’d find on a starter registry at Babies R Us or Target) so if you want to learn about it, then you have to seek the information on your own. So far, I’m pretty impressed by the cloth diapering community and I’m jumping on the bandwagon of the #makeclothdiaperingmainstreamchallenge campaign.
Here are five surprising things that you didn’t know about cloth diapering that I’d like to share with you:
1. Cloth diapers can save you a crapload!
I’m a numbers gal and this is what caught my attention:
I never realized that I was literally throwing money in the garbage with the amount of money spent on disposables throughout my baby’s lifetime in diapers. The initial investment to build up a stash of cloth diapers is hard to swallow, but after reusing them and possibly selling them (more on that later), I learned that it’s money well spent.
I’d also like to add that cloth diapering is good for the environment, but we already knew that. That’s the first thing that popped into my head when I thought about cloth diapering. However, if the cloth diapering advocates campaigned on this money saving statistic alone, I think more parents would consider using cloth diapers instead of disposables.
2. Cloth diapers are collectables
They say that you need approximately 24 cloth diapers to go full-time and ditch the disposables. At that point, you’ve built yourself a decent “stash” and when you no longer need to purchase more cloth diapers, then you are considered “stashified.” You see, the cloth diapering community has its own set of vocabulary and behaviors. One of the most surprising behaviors that I discovered was that people collect, buy, sell, and trade cloth diapers.
It’s kind of like how Beanie Babies were back in the 90s, or how Jordans are for the sneakerheads – except babies poop in these commodities and they still hold their value. There are Facebook groups for cloth diapering support and on Saturdays, some mommas proudly display their collection and call it “Saturday Stash Shot” or “SSS”:
Special shout-out to my Peace.Love.AppleCheeks mommas who shared their awesome stash shots with us from top left, clockwise: Ashley S., Melissa F., Jessica M., Alicia R., Natalie H.
At first, I thought it was a little cray, but now I see stash shots and I’m completely mesmerized like, “Oooh! So pretty, look at all that fluff! Must…buy…more….diapers!”
So back to the money part – because just like the wise Snoop Dogg, “I’ve got my mind on my money, and my money on my mind.” Here’s an example: You can buy a diaper for $20 at retail value. Your baby can poop in it many, many times then you can sell it USED for $17 if it is in good condition. (If it’s a limited edition diaper, you can may even make a profit from selling it.) So if you buy 24 diapers and sell them once your child is done potty training, then your total cost of diapering was $72. I’m no math genius, but that sure does beat $1400 spent on disposable diapers, or “sposies” as the cloth diapering community calls them.
3. Laundry is not a problem. I repeat, laundry is not a problem.
Laundry is my kryptonite, so I’m inclined to avoid anything that would result in MORE laundry. To my pleasant surprise, it’s really just one extra load of laundry! I can handle that. Once you figure out a wash routine that works for you, then it’s pretty easy. It basically goes like this:
As for the yuck factor – exclusively breastfed baby poop is 100% soluble so I don’t have to prewash or scrape off poop before throwing it in the laundry. My baby has not started on solids yet, so we can revisit this topic when that happens.
4. It’s YOUR baby’s butt, so you diaper it how you see fit.
Your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister, your cousins, and your friends will all have their opinions on cloth diapering. The beauty of it is, it’s YOUR choice and you can customize your cloth diapering experience based on what works best for you and your baby. For example, it doesn’t have to be a 100% all or nothing experience – my husband still insists on using disposables when we go out or at nighttime, but I use cloth any chance I get when we’re at home.
You can also choose what type of cloth diaper you want on your baby’s bum. There are different types of brands, covers, inserts, materials, patterns. The possibilities are endless – that’s also where it can become overwhelming. I found that I love AppleCheeks diaper covers and their bamboo inserts (more on that later…and maybe even a giveaway!) so I’m building my stash that brand alone.
5. They are so darn cute
I can’t even stand the cuteness factor of Alyssa’s fluff butt. I’m looking forward for summer so I can have her in dresses and her adorable diapers. Ruffles? Yes, please! So I’ll just leave this here:
I hope you learned a thing or two about cloth diapering, or at least opened your mind a bit on the #makeclothmainstreamchallenge. Here are some other helpful groups on Facebook filled with experts and lots of great parents who are happy to help you learn more about cloth diapering:
Have you tried cloth diapers? What surprised you the most about cloth diapering?
Paw Patrol Birthday Party
Last weekend, we hosted a joint birthday party for Arielle and Zavier, where Arielle wanted a Sofia the First birthday and big boy Zavier wanted a Paw Patrol birthday party. I was able to pull off both themes in one party by setting up separate sweet tables with decorations and custom labels. You can check out how Arielle’s Sofia the First sweet table turned out here. And this is how Zavier’s Paw Patrol sweet table turned out:
This is the only area of the house that had the Paw Patrol decorations, so I wanted to make sure it had big impact. I started by hanging streamers against the wall, then hung Paw Patrol decorations from the ceiling:
The centerpiece of the sweet table was the Paw Patrol birthday cake. I had a local bakery make the cake and we were able to save some money by topping it with a Paw Patrol toy instead of having the cake designer create it from scratch using fondant. Plus, Zavier got to keep the toy after the cake was gobbled up:
I bought donuts and popcorn from the store and made the Puppy Chow the night before. I gave it a customized look by creating Paw Patrol food labels using Canva. Then I printed them out on 5×7 cardstock paper and folded them in half.
You can use my designs and edit them in Canva. It’s free, click here It should be pretty easy to figure out how to modify the labels, then you can save it as an image and print them out.
I also used Canva to create custom favor bag toppers for sandwich bags. I printed these out onto 5×7 cardstock paper, folded them in half, and stapled them onto the sandwich bags.
You can use the template in Canva to change the picture, name, and age: click here. Makes for a quick, easy, and cheap favor bag!
Feel free to follow along on my Paw Patrol Birthday Pinterest board for more ideas and inspiration:
Happy fourth birthday to Zavier!
Thanks for reading along!
Sofia the First Birthday Party
We celebrated Arielle’s 6th birthday last week along with her brother’s 4th birthday, and it just so happened to be Spring Break as well! You can read all about their Spring Break birthday extravaganza here. Arielle wanted a Sofia the First birthday party and Zavier wanted a Paw Patrol birthday, and I was able to pull off both themes in one party by setting up separate sweet tables with decorations and custom labels. Here’s how the Sofia the First sweet table turned out:
This is the only area of the house that had the Sofia the First decorations, so I wanted to make sure it had big impact. I started by hanging a chandelier from the ceiling that I got from a garage sale for $5 using command strips, then hung Sofia the First decorations and added balloons around it:
The centerpiece of the sweet table was the Sofia the First birthday cake. I had a local bakery make the cake and worked with them on the design – it had to have the Sofia the First dress pattern, a tiara, and the number 6 for the birthday girl! It was just as delicious on the inside as it was gorgeous on the outside:
I bought cupcakes, cookies, and chocolates from the store (saved a ton of time!), but gave it a customized look by creating Sofia the First food labels using Canva. Then I printed them out on 5×7 cardstock paper and folded them in half.
You can use my design templates and edit them in Canva. It’s free, click here It should be pretty easy to figure out how to modify the labels, then you can save it as an image and print them out. Seriously, you’re welcome. I love Canva!
I also used Canva to create custom favor bag toppers for sandwich bags. I printed these out on 5×7 cardstock paper, folded them in half, and stapled them onto the sandwich bags.
You can use the template in Canva to customize the picture, name, and age: click here. Makes for a quick, easy, and cheap favor bag!
Feel free to pin this on Pinterest or follow along on my Sofia the First Birthday Pinterest board for more ideas and inspiration:
If you try out the designs on Canva, please let me know how they turned out!
Happy birthday to my sweet princess:
Thanks for reading along! Stay tuned for some Paw Patrol birthday action…
Thrifty Entryway Decor and Inspiration
Yay, I finally decorated my entryway! It’s been awhile since I shared a home decor post. Since owning this home for a little over two years, I’ve learned that decorating is a long, drawn-out process because it’s expensive! It takes me forever because I’m indecisive and cheap. The good news is that I’m patient and I’m thrifty. So here’s how my entryway decor turned out:
I started out with this Pinterest board for inspiration and gravitated towards things like:
This white console table:
These woven storage baskets:
The grey tones with the plum accent in this entryway:
This cherry blossom tree painting:
Over the course of six months, I slowly started acquiring things that reminded me of my inspiration board:
I scored all these things at over 50% off at sales or clearance prices:
- Console Table – Home Goods $99
- Woven Basket – Home Goods $16
- Glass Jars – Sears $10
- Cherry Blossom Light – Kirkland’s $20
- Birds on a Wire Canvas Art – Kirkland’s $30
The painting of the birds on a wire makes me happy. All the colors match the palette throughout my home – grey, blue, plum, and cream.
I was hoping to get a lamp, but holy crap – those are ridiculously expensive! Then I scored this cherry blossom tree light at a local Kirkland’s that was closing. I think it gives my entryway a little character.
My husband asked me why I bought a little Christmas tree. LOL!
I think it makes the space look warm and inviting.
So there you have it. This is the first thing you’ll see when you walk into our home. (You’ll also be greeted by a scruffy white dog with no teeth, a curious little girl with glasses, a little boy with a dirty face, and a crying baby.)
Thanks for checking out my entryway! Don’t forget to follow me on Pinterest!
Mommy A-Z’s Guide to MommyCon
I had the opportunity to attend MommyCon Chicago 2015 as a “Sisterhood Journalist.” It was my first time attending MommyCon and my first time covering a live event as a blogger! I came equipped with my baby and my selfie stick as I embarked on my MommyCon adventure.
Here’s my guide to MommyCon, with a little help from my Instagram posts from the event:
Get Your Ticket
…and get it right away! MommyCon Chicago was all SOLD OUT this year, so it probably will be a hot ticket for other cities as well. For a list of MommyCon cities and dates, click here. Presale tickets are $30. General Admission is $40 and you can get $5 off with promo code MOMMYAZ15. It’s worth it because you get that money back from all the products in the gift bag. GIFT BAG?! Yes, more on that later!
After you purchase your ticket online, all you have to do is go to the registration desk at the event with your ID and email address. Then, you’ll be given a badge that will serve as entry into the conference, your pass to get your gift bag, and your raffle number to win some prizes.
Here’s Alyssa sporting our “Media” badge:
*Insider tip: Every General Admission and VIP ticket holder gets a gift bag and entry to win the giveaway prizes at the end. If you bring your significant other along, then that’s double the gift bags and double the chances of winning!
Pack Lightly
It’s great that you get to bring your baby to the conference, but strollers are not recommended since it gets pretty crowded. I suggest wearing your baby in a wrap or carrier and using a backpack to carry all your stuff. You’ll definitely have your hands full as you start to aquire goodies at the event.
*Insider tip: Some vendors provide reusable shopping bags that you can use to haul your goods.
Learn Something
Review the MommyCon schedule and plan out which sessions you want to attend. They offer interactive sessions on cloth diapering, babywearing, breastfeeding, and other fun natural parenting classes. The line-up of speakers and classes is usually posted on the MommyCon website within 30 days of the event.
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*Insider tip: Set the alarm on your phone to remind you when sessions are about to begin. Get there early and sit towards the front. Some speakers throw products out to the audience and usually the people in the front grab them first!
Set a Budget
Before the event, review the exhibitor list and make note of the ones you want to check out. Give yourself a budget on how much you plan on spending on things like cloth diapers, wraps, breastfeeding products, safety gear, teething soothers…There are so many amazing products and exclusive items, that it can be easy to get carried away with MommyCon purchases.
I knew for sure I wanted to hit up Chompy Chic Chewerly to get a matching set for my Tula. I even got to meet founder and owner Sonia who helped me pick out a Petite Elephant Silicone Teether Necklace.
*Insider tip: Most of the vendors offer discounts if you make a purchase at MommyCon. They might even offer a promo code if you want to shop online after the event!
Visit the Babywearing Lounge
The sessions were super informative, but one of my favorite spots was the Baby Wearing Lounge where you can try on different brands of wraps and carriers. It’s like a giant fitting room for babywearing! They had experts standing by to help navigate through the different types of carriers and what might work best for you.
Make Some Friends
This is a great opportunity to meet owners of some of your favorite brands, boutiques, and bloggers. I learned about cloth diapering from the co-owners of AppleCheeks and even got branded with an AppleCheeks tattoo! I bought my two first pairs of the sweetest cloth diapers.
I also met the founder of Baby Jack and Co. sensory tag blankets and was super inspired by the story and amazing quality behind the sensory tag blankets.
I attended the event by myself, but I met some awesome mommas. At lunch, I sat at a table full of new and expecting parents and we exchanged birth stories. And all throughout the event, I took selfies with my fellow Tula mommas. Ca-caw!
Don’t forget to rest
This event was way too exciting and overstimulating for both my baby and me. Fortunately, there was a breastfeeding lounge, changing stations, and quiet rooms for much needed downtime. There were also huge water pitchers everywhere so us mommies could stay hydrated.
*Insider tip: Don’t stress if you forget the diapers. There are complimentary diapers and wipes available at the baby changing station.
Get your goods
Stay until the very end because that’s when they do the big giveaways – car seats, cribs, wraps, bouncers, diapers, breastfeeding supplies. You must be present to win. I was hopeful, but I did not win. Womp, womp, womp.
Who wants to win some prizes?!?!It’s #giveaway time at #mommycon #MommyConChicago #MCSceneReporter A photo posted by Gracielle (@mommya_z) on
I did, however, get a gift bag! Everyone gets a gift bag! You get a gift bag! And you! And you! (a la Oprah circa 2004 )
Here’s what was included (Note: All items in the gift bags may vary):
- Grovia hybrid cloth diapering trial pack
- Crane Belly Glo Night Light
- Crane Organic Lip Balm
- Nursng Happens Infinity Breastfeeding Scarf
- Babyganics Lotion
- Earth Mama Angel Baby Natural Nipple Butter
- Baby Comfy Nose Nasal Aspirator
- Munchkin Diaper Bag Dispenser
- Munchkin Deluxe Fresh Food Feeder
- The Windii
- Bumb Genius Wetbag
Here are the freebees I got from visiting the exhibitors:
- Kiinde Twist Breastmilk Storage Set
- Evenflo nursing pads
- Planet Wise reusable food storage bag
Here are some of the awesome products that I will be doing a review on soon:
- AppleCheeks Cloth Diapers
- Baby Jack and Company Sensory Tag Blanket
I had an amazing time at MommyCon and highly suggest this for moms and even dads who are expecting, new, or seasoned parents. Seriously, this should be in every city. For at least 2 days. Twice a year. It was that much fun!
One more time, here’s a link to the 2015 MommyCon event schedule. You are more than welcome to use my promo code on General Admission tickets for $5 off: MOMMYAZ15.
Thanks so much for reading along!
Thank You Notes from the Milk Production Agency
This week I’m linking up with my girl Dean from Mrs. AOK a Work in Progress on her weekly “Thank You Notes” series, inspired by The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon.
I’m thankful everyday for my husband, my kids, my family and friends, our health, the food on the table and the roof over our heads. That’s obvi. But sometimes it’s those little things that deserve a special thank you note. So here goes:
Thank you, boobs, for giving me the superhero powers to feed and nourish my little baby. Special shout-out goes out to Left Boob, for being a ridiculous overachiever and making me my chest look freakishly lopsided.
Sometimes I feel like my world revolves around my boobs. Seriously, I have to drop everything when it’s feeding time! My parents refer to me as a “Milk Production Agency” or call me the “Milk Lady.” Arielle once drew a picture of me as a cow with udders and a calf sucking from them. (I really wish I saved that picture!) Again, thank you to my boobs for plumping up these chubby cheeks:
Thank you, confused receptionist at the hair salon, for totally forgetting that I arrived for my appointment and keeping me waiting for so long…and then making up for it by giving me a complimentary massage and 50% off my entire service! And thank you, Cara at Spa Bleu, for making this momma feel pretty again! (Even though the only place I went was to Target to walk around aimlessly.)
Thank you, Tula baby carrier, for letting me hold my baby close while getting stuff done around the house! I thought my hands would be tied with three kids, but I’m able to cook, do laundry, get A&Z ready for school/ready for bed, work, and even hang pictures on the wall while carrying the baby. This thing has been a life saver!
She’s close enough for me to kiss her anytime I want! And when I glance down, I see this cutie pie looking up at me:
Don’t you want to kiss her???
Thanks for reading along on my first “Thank You Notes”! (Please excuse the grainy iPhone photos and the glasses.)
What are you writing “thank you notes” for this week?
I Forgot My Baby’s Name
I’m officially back to work from the Best Maternity Leave Ever. It’s been a challenge to get into the swing of things like dealing with the cold weather, getting the kids back to school, and keeping up with the fast-paced work environment. So far I didn’t forget to wear pants to work (yes, that actually happened! Read about it here), but I did forget my baby’s name. Someone at work asked me what her name was and my mind went completely blank. You can blame it on the “mommy brain” but I assure you, it’s more complicated than that.
Let me ‘splain. I forgot my baby’s name because we’ve all been calling her different things:
(And while I’m at it, here are Alyssa’s newborn photos that I’ve been meaning to share. She’s already three months old so it’s now or never! These photos were done by Ashley Gee Imagery)
We had a hard time deciding on what to name her and she had no name for the first two days after she was born. At that time, she was known as “Baby Girl Tamanio.”
I decided that I wanted to name her “Alyssa” because it sounded nicely with her siblings’ names, “Arielle and Zavier.” Also, I figured that if Arielle’s nickname is “Arie” and Alyssa’s nickname is “Allie,” then “Arie and Allie” would have a nice ring to it.
Jeffrey wanted to name her “Jaime” after his late father. However, Zavier was already named after Jeff’s dad because his middle name is “James.” Also, I’m not a fan of the unisex names (personal preference, no offense). So the compromise was that her middle name would be “Jaime” on her birth certificate. Regardless of what her name is on paper, Jeff insists on calling her “Jaime.”
And then there are the many silly names that Zavier gives her. He’s three years old and is super proud to be a big bro. I don’t know where these names come from, but they’re pretty cute. There’s “Baby Ana,” “Bean” or “Beanie,” and my personal favorite – “Uncle Baby.”
In summary, her name is Alyssa. AKA Jaime. AKA Uncle Baby.
I guess it doesn’t matter what her name is. All I know is that she is so sweet and squishy and much bigger than she was during her newborn photo shoot. Here’s a more recent picture of her at 12 weeks:
And here are those cheeks in action:
Special thanks to Ashley Gee Imagery for the beautiful photos and to Knitted Reverie for the darling headbands!
Beach Bums and Mall Rats
What are you supposed to do when you’re on maternity leave with two kids and a newborn at your parents’ house in Florida in the middle of January? Go to the beach or the mall every day, of course! We’re officially beach bums and mall rats. It’s ridiculous. But it’s awesome!!!
We started last week off at my Happy Place, Anna Maria Island. Then, a few days later we went to the beach at Fort DeSoto Park. The beach was just as beautiful with white sand and calm, turquoise blue waters.
My parents go there all the time for the bike trails and the fishing areas. They brought their beach tent so we could lounge or nap (or eat burgers) as we pleased.
On the gloomy or not-so-hot days we chill at the mall just to get out of the house. I feel like a teenager again! Except instead of getting crazy around the mall with my girlfriends, I’m getting nauseous around carousel with my kiddos.
Even Alyssa is a baby mall mouse. No stroller for this little diva! She likes to be toted around in a wrap or sling. I’m new to this babywearing thing, but so far it’s working out great!
My mom is loves wearing her in the sling, too:
We’ve definitely earned our “mall rat” status. So far we’ve been to Brandon Mall, International Plaza, Ellenton Premium Outlets, and the newest one, the Mall at University Town Center in Sarasota.
The malls here are very nice, although I wish my bank account was fat enough so I could fully take advantage of all they have to offer! I swear, I’m not a shoppaholic. We just like to walk around and window shop…and eat.
And occasionally wear lampshades on our head. LOL
So that’s what we do the majority of the time here in Florida. Beaches and malls. Malls and beaches. Occasionally, we throw in a day where we exercise or golf, or learn a thing or two at the children’s museum, zoo, or aquarium…but mostly malls and beaches. Weeeeeeeeee! Love it!
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Review: Knitted Reverie Baby Headbands
I received these products from Knitted Reverie for free in exchange for a product review on MommyA-Z.com. All opinions are my own.
I knew Alyssa was going to be spoiled even before she was born. At least, I intend on spoiling her with love and attention since she’s my last baby. It’s a bonus that my last baby ended up being a girl – that means I can go all out with all things pretty and girly. Yes, I’m talking about pretty bows, pearls, flowers, bling, and hearts. ***Squeals!***
I was thrilled when Heather from Knitted Reverie introduced me to her Etsy shop. She makes the cutest knitted baby headbands and I immediately knew these would be perfect for newborn photos. I just had a hard time picking one out because they were all so adorbs (click here to see what’s available at Knitted Reverie’s Etsy shop. You can even request custom headbands!)
Alyssa was teeny tiny when she was born, but the headbands fit perfectly. They even have a little stretch to them so I’m sure she can rock ’em for the next few months or so. They are soft to the touch and not itchy on her precious newborn skin, and they keep her head warm. My favorite part was the uniqueness of each piece – just as precious as my little one!
Are you ready for some serious cuteness?
Those were taken at the hospital while Alyssa and I were bonding. I just couldn’t help myself!
Here are some pictures from Alyssa’s newborn photo shoot this past weekend:
Photo credits: Ashley Gee Imagery
I think newborns look best naked with minimal accessories, so the headbands worked out beautifully. Stay tuned for more pics from Alyssa’s newborn photo sesh.
Many thanks to Heather for the opportunity for Alyssa to try out these wonderful creations. Please feel free to pin, share, and check out Knitted Reverie on Esty and show some love!
Swirly Trees and Happy Thoughts
I’ve always wanted to do one of those painting classes – the kind where you drink a bottle of wine with your friends while a teacher gives instructions on how to re-create a work of art. If I had a bucket list, this would be on it. I picture myself with an easel and a smock with a set of borrowed paint brushes. I would drink red wine and compliment my neighbors on their progress while thinking, “Mine is better!” letting my creativity pour itself all over the blank canvas. I would do a great job, proudly show my children and ask my husband to hang my masterpiece in my home office. This was all in my head. I just never got around to scheduling it because it’s too expensive or too far away or I couldn’t find the time, excuses, excuses, excuses…
And then it happened. In real life.
My boss’s friend opened up a shop nearby and she invited me to go to a “Paint ‘n Sip” workshop last Friday. Well, for me it was more like “Paint, no Sip” since I’m preggers. It was everything I envisioned and I had so much fun!
This was the inspiration art – a whimsical, colorful swirly tree:
This is the proverbial blank canvas:
First, she had us pencil in the tree placement and work on the background:
Then, it was time to get all swirly:
That’s me! Canvas, smock, borrowed paint brushes and all – just like I imagined.
The finished product:
Sherri and me:
I don’t know if it was because I wanted to do this for a long time, or if it was because this was my first night out in a long time without the kids or hubs, or because of all those swirly swirls – but I such a great time!
I would highly suggest this as a girls’ night out or a mother/daughter bonding activity. If you’re in the northwest Chicago-land area, you can look out for upcoming events at Fabric, Fiber, and Finds.
xoxo // gracielle.
{Review + Giveaway} Farfaria App for iPad
I received a free subscription to the Farfaria children’s books iPad app in exchange for writing a review on this blog. All opinions are my own.
As a busy, full-time working mommy, I make it a priority to set aside time in my evening to be with Arielle and Zavier as they get ready for bed. Being part of their nighttime routine helps me from staying awake at night wondering, “Oh shoot! Did I spend time with my kids today?!” This includes their bath, brushing their teeth, changing into their pajamas, and story time. Oh, how they love story time!
Usually they run to the playroom and pick out their favorite book for me to read, but after some time I got tired of reading the same ol’ books. About a year ago, I came across a children’s book app for the iPad called Farfaria and mixed up the routine with traditional books and electronic books.
I was thrilled when the nice folks at Farfaria partnered with me for a review and giveaway since I was already a fan of the app! Here’s some of the cool features:
- Variety – More than 600 stories, with 5 new stories added weekly. There are stories old and new, for boys and girls. I found some of my favorite stories when I was a kid like The Princess and the Pea. Zavier is crazy about snakes these days and there was a picture book of different types of snakes. I cringed the entire time, but he loved it! And there’s even a “Preschool Playground” section for books for Arielle to enjoy.
- Read-to-me feature – Each story has a read-to-me option where the app reads the story to you. Seriously, don’t judge me – when I read regular books, I skip words or even pages sometimes on those really long, hard days. Or if its a book that I know all too well, I close my eyes and recite the words and turn the pages as needed. Like I said, don’t judge! So Farfaria’s read-to-me feature has been a lifesaver – the app reads to my kids and all I have to do is swipe the page as needed. But I try to use it sparingly – I still want the kids to find comfort in my story-reading voice and not the Farfaria app voices.
- Easy to use, no adds or pop-ups – Zavier is 3 years old and quite the expert iPad user. He throws mini-tantrums at apps that have pop-ups or take him to the app store, but I don’t have to worry about that with this app. It’s a clean, easy experience for my tech savvy toddler.
You can try the Farfaria app for free by downloading the app here and read one story a day, or you can enter for a chance to be one of two lucky winners to win a free 3 month subscription to Farfaria with access to unlimited stories.
Good luck to you!
Do you read to your kids regularly or as part of their bedtime routine? What are their favorite books?
xoxo // gracielle.
5 Things I Learned at Disney World
Last month, we had a family vacation in Florida to celebrate A&Z’s birthday and we spent a day at the Magic Kingdom in Disney World. I think I’ve been there four times in the past eight years or so, but they change it up so much that there’s always something new to see. For A&Z, everything was new and exciting. (They were there 2 years ago, but I doubt they remember much). So here are some pictures from our day at the Happiest Place on Earth, along with five things I learned along the way: about my kids, about me, and about life in general.
1. It’s okay to fall off the grid, especially if you’re already with the ones you love.
There is so much to see at Disney World, that I didn’t even want to blink or else I’d miss something spectacular – or as my sis calls it, “FOMO” or “Fear of Missing Out.” The last thing I wanted to do was bury my face on my smart phone to update Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter. Plus, I was already sharing these wonderful moments with my favorite people and I didn’t want to spoil it by zoning out into social media land.
Okay, fine. I did upload a few Instagram photos, but there was not much else to do while we were waiting for the parade to begin…
2. Dance. And don’t hesitate to do so.
Zavier, who just turned 3, is anxiously waiting for his life to begin because tends to live in the shadow of his big sis, Arielle. The Disney cast members started square dancing in the middle of the street and they invited Arielle to dance, but she was not in the mood to participate. Then, when they asked Zavier to dance, he jumped out of his stroller without hesitation and danced his little heart out. The opportunity to dance or do other great things can pop up when you least expect it. You just have to be ready, don’t hesitate, and just go for it – even if you don’t know all the steps.
3. No matter how busy you are, your kids deserve your attention.
The lines (OMG, the LINES!) just to meet the characters were at least 45 minutes long. But even though they had an endless queue of kids waiting to see them, they acted like my kids were the only ones in the entire park. They took their time with A&Z, answered all their questions, and gave them extra hugs. Merida stopped and played Spidey with Zavier after noticing his Spiderman shoes. Ariel made Arielle feel special because they had similar names, even though Arielle totally got star-struck and didn’t say anything to her favorite mermaid.
Winnie the Pooh and Tigger have adventures to get to, the Fairy Godmother has millions of wishes to grant, and the Princesses are super busy, no doubt. These character encounters taught me that even though I’m a busy mom, I should still stop and give my kids my undivided attention at their precious, young age. Sometimes the dishes, the emails, and the laundry can wait.
4. Every Little Girl is a Princess
One of my biggest fears is Arielle as a teenager. I’m scared that she will try to grow up too fast. You know, like girls who wear make-up at a young age and go totally boy crazy before they hit sixteen. Arielle is my little princess. She’s five and I love everything about this age. She has big dreams and the world is amazing and beautiful and exciting in her eyes. She’s sweet, curious, and charming all at the same time. Every little girl is a princess and seeing Arielle experience all-things-Princess at Disney World made me want to preserve and cherish that innocence for as long as I can.
5. When you wish upon a star, your dreams come true
I’m so happy we stayed for the show where the “Cinderella’s Castle comes to life” and the fireworks at the end of the night. The entire production left me in awe and totally inspired. All the mean people, negativity, limitations, and boundaries ceased to exist and I actually believed that anything was possible!!!
And then we left sunny Florida, came back to the miserable cold weather in the midwest, I went back to work, and reality set in. Womp, womp, womp…
Just kidding, it wasn’t all that depressing. Those feelings of hope, inspiration, and wonder can exist no matter where I am, or how old I am. I think that’s what the magic of Disney is all about – instilling hope, dreams, and possibilities. Just see what these friends have to say:
Thanks for reading along! Have you been to Disney lately and learned something new? It doesn’t have to be about life – general park tips would be welcome, too. For example, we learned in the late-afternoon that our ticket came with 3 free fast-passes so we actually only got to use 2 of them. Also, those character dining events have to be booked months in advance so we missed out on that as well.
xoxo // gracielle.
{Through the Lens Thursday} Doors
I’ve been slacking on this photography challenge, but as soon as I saw that this week’s prompt was “door” I knew exactly which photo I wanted to share:
Ok, so that might be more of a gate, but still – I thought it was so pretty. This was taken last year at Yale University for my sister’s graduation. The intricate iron work on the door against the stone is what caught my attention. It was pretty easy to shoot since it doesn’t move (LOL) and the natural light was in my favor.
Thanks for following along on this edition of “Through the Lens Thursday” where every week Alison from Wishing Writing and Greta from Gfunkified give the participants an assignment to take photos based on a prompt. My goal on participating in this photo project is to challenge myself to take more photos, sharpen my photography skills, and hopefully capture some breathtaking photographs along the way! You can follow my progress on this exciting project on my Pinterest board here.
xoxo // gracielle.
{Review} 10 Things That Make You #RaiseYourArms
Note: I received these products complimentary from Influenster for testing purposes. All opinions are my own.
I’ve kinda been in a funk with the winter blues, but it helps to think happy thoughts. It also helps when Influenster sends me a VoxBox of free goodies in the mail to test out. Woot! (Check out my #jollyVoxBox review here.)
This time they sent me Dove Advanced Care Deodorant with Nutrium Moisture to cheer up my armpits. Seriously, 36% of what you remove when shaving is skin (64% is hair). As a result, armpit skin loses 50% more moisture, which can lead to dryness and irritation. I bet your armpits are feeling a little depressed now, too.
As one of the #RaiseYourArms Influenster VoxBox recipients, I was put to the test to see if this Dove deodorant helps moisturize and soften my pits. I would show you, but EWW – I don’t think we wanna go there. What would my kids think if they scrolled through my photos and saw armpit selfies? Plus, it’s winter here and my armpits are well hidden under layers of clothes…
Instead, I give you 10 things that make you #RaiseYourArms:
1. Dancing
2. High fiving
3. Diva Snappin’
4. Being a Super Hero
5. Waving
6. Raising the Roof
7. Saluting
8. Jamming
9. Knowing the Answer
10. Celebrating
Thanks for reading along. What makes you #RaiseYourArms?
P.S. I got these awesome gifs from giphy.com
P.P.S. I might have also browsed at a few Channing Tatum and Chris Hemsworth gifs while doing research for this post. But let’s just keep that to ourselves for now.
P.P.P.S. Do you want to be an Influenster? I have 3 invites left so send me an email at gracielle(at)mommya-z(dot)com or leave a comment below and I’ll send you an invite. First come, first serve.
Help Me Choose: Rivet & Sway Glasses
Hi there! I need your help choosing my next pair of specs. The glasses I currently wear are as old as my first-born child. Okay, they’re only 4 years old, but that made it sound really old, didn’t it? Hehehe. I’m indecisive and cheap, which makes it hard for me to actually pick a pair that I’m willing to spend money on.
Last weekend, the internet gods kept showing me these Rivet & Sway ads for me to try on glasses at home for free. Their website has a nicely curated set of stylish, feminine glasses, so it was pretty easy to pick out which ones I wanted to try on without being overwhelmed. Two days later, I had 5 pairs of glasses in a pretty little box at my doorstep. Kinda cool, right? It sure does beat having to go out in the nasty weather with A&Z to try on glasses at the store.
I have several disclaimers that you must read before continuing:
- I’m not affiliated with Rivet & Sway, I’m just trying their nifty program and all opinions are my own. I need your opinions, too!
- WARNING: Multiple selfies ahead! I heard that #selfie was the word of the year in 2013, and yes – I got the memo that it is now 2014. However, I just couldn’t get around to do this exercise without all the obnoxious selfies. Please, forgive me.
- I suggest you play this song while you review the choices below. Yes, I was thinking about #StarbucksDrakeHands while I was taking these photos. (That’s not a good thing.)
- Don’t let that pimple above my right eyebrow sway your opinion in any way.
Now that I got that off my chest, here are the choices:
#1: Ticker Tape:
#2 Cherry Blossom:
#3: High Five
#4: Spitfire
#5: 5th Avenue
And if you’re a side-by-side comparison kind of person, here are the choices one more time:
I’m going for glasses that make a statement, but don’t overwhelm my face. I’m going for smart and feminine, but not like I’m trying too hard to look like a hipster. Easy-peasy, right? NOT. I have my top faves in mind, but I won’t share which ones just yet.
Leave a comment with the number the glasses you think I should get! Thanks so much for weighing in!
xoxo // gracielle.
{Through the Lens Thursday} Reflection
This week’s Through the Lens Thursday prompt was “reflection.” This was such a fun project because it sounds simple, but there are so many dimensions to shooting a photo when reflection is involved. I decided to just snap photos around the house and “reflect” on my home.
We had another bout of insane below-freezing temperatures, so I worked from home on Monday. It’s funny now that I think about it – I rarely get a chance to be in my home when the sun is out. I’m either at work or out running errands. The light that pours through our windows during the daytime is incredible so I took this as an opportunity to take on the photography challenge!
First, I had to get at a good angle where I wasn’t in the shot. No selfies here, folks! Also, I had to adjust my lens to focus on the subject inside the mirror, when the camera wanted to auto-focus on the mirror itself. I’m obsessed with my fixed lens, but for this exercise I just used the standard 18-55mm lens.
Looking at my home through the lens of my camera and through the reflection of a mirror made me see my house from a different perspective. It wasn’t just about what needs to get cleaned next or did I let the dog out or did I leave clothes in the washer. It gave me a chance to step back from the everyday madness and reflect on what my home really means to me.
This mirror looks into our family room and the BIGGEST COUCH IN THE WORLD. This photo only captured about a fourth of the entire thing. It’s an awesome couch, you can get lost in it. The running joke is, “How many Filipinos can you fit on that couch?”
I see countless hours of watching TV and snuggling under blankets and pillows piled high on these cold winter days. I see A&Z, as tiny as they are, doing sprints back and forth on the couch and us yelling at them to stop running and jumping on the couch. But it looks like a ton of fun, and I wonder why I don’t run across the couch a few times myself and crash face first into the pillows. I see Jeff sleeping along the other side of the couch after a long overnight shift. Actually, he was sleeping on the other side while I snapped this photo (LOL). Looking at this reflection makes me think of words like BRIGHT. COZY. HOME.
This mirror looks into our dining room that opens up into our living room. When I see this reflection, I see intimate family gatherings around the dining table. I see laughter shared over a meal, some dessert, and conversations that linger on through the late hours. I hear music playing from the piano, and perhaps someone singing on the microphone that’s hooked up to the ridiculously loud and unsightly speakers that Jeff set up in our formal living room.
So this photography exercise on “reflection” inspired me to reflect on how my house has become a home in just a year and a half. This is where real life and love happens. There are even a few smudgy mirrors and some clutter, but hey – it’s real.
What have you reflected on recently?
Thanks for following along on this edition of “Through the Lens Thursday” where every week Alison from Wishing Writing and Greta from Gfunkified give the participants an assignment to take photos based on a prompt. My goal on participating in this photo project is to challenge myself to take more photos, sharpen my photography skills, and hopefully capture some breathtaking photographs along the way! You can follow my progress on this exciting project on my Pinterest board here.
xoxo // gracielle.